Razors and Walmart?

Yep....totally need to go to Walmart and just buy some razors..... Seriously, I think it is time to give up sometimes-

SVJ

ohhhh my...

I guess he was married....immediately there after I was blocked on fb and pof

Prince Charming ....do you exist?

Perhaps prince charming only exists in Disney movies, and bad Fox remakes? I got bombarded with three jerks in a row yesterday.....perhaps I should just buy a box of razors and take a warm bath like someone said on facebook yesterday?

then.....

Saaaayyyyyy whut?

My profile clearly lists on OkCupid that I'm a transgender female and yet all day I receive messages like this. I wish people understood its not my responsibility to be their personal Wikipedia, or satisfy their 'curious' needs. Stop using your privilege to make other people feel inferior-

Big sigh...

She-Mail

A few years ago RuPaul got in trouble with some millennials over the term She-Mail. Not Shemale, but the word She-Mail. A line was drawn in the trans community that what this really meant was that she was making fun of transgender people. Ironically she recreated a word, and coined it on a show that is famous for crossdressing for entertainment purposes: Drag.

I think above all else that the context in which this was used is how she should be judged on its usage. After all if you take someone to court over an issue you can't charge one way and mean another. In the realm of public opinion it gets a little messy because the court of public opinion has no rules or set boundaries.

The prevailing idea about the term She-Mail was that RuPaul was delivering some mail via the television to her contestants. She wasn't treating them inferior and calling them porn actors with the term she-male. Which in a different spelling and different context means something completely different.

That's why language is so fascinating to me. Words have meaning based upon the context in which they are used. Same with people going on a television show to "Roast" someone. You know what you signed up for. All jokes, good and bad are going to be on limits and nothing off limits. It is its own context.

#TeamRuPaul
#TeamContext
#TeamSanity

MrBell61

Seriously .....days like this make me just want to hang myself in the closet or in the woods. Id be too afraid though that a child or one of my parents would find me. Hell I don't want anyone to find me that way. Anyways, I'm just venting but god my soul is tired today-

SVJ

Nudes?

Everyday on Facebook, twitter, and dating sites this is what I see. At least a dozen of these "lovely" messages from twatcicles like this-

SVJ

Match

Definitely not a match this time but I'm getting tired of online bullies. If my prince is out there, now would be a good time to let me know you have a crush on me. I'm seriously getting to my wits end.

Depressed but not dead-