Dating Idiots

A lot of my time in the dating world surrounds having to defend myself, explain myself or excuse myself from a conversation. Its emotionally exhausting. Most recently I had a conversation with a dude who lamented that he was tired of girls judging him based upon his brown skin, and how he couldn't get anyone to take him serious. Then he went onto objectify me with my looks, sexualize me because of my gender and when I pointed it out he peaced out abruptly.

This guy tended to be a lot more polite than most but how do you constantly live in a world where you are a social pariah, not welcome and are just tokenized from general society? I don't know....if I had an answer I wouldn't have this blog. This is my life.....welcome to the road less traveled-